The way we talk about relationships is evolving as fast as the world we live in, and Gen Z, known for their innovative and inclusive approach to life, has developed a unique lexicon for modern love. From the nuances of dating to exploring connections, here’s a deep dive into the relationship terms that dominate Gen Z’s world.
Situationship
A relationship without clear labels or definitions. It falls somewhere between casual dating and full commitment. It offers flexibility but can also lead to confusion if expectations aren’t aligned.
Hard Launch / Soft Launch
Borrowed from marketing, these terms refer to how relationships are revealed on social media. A hard launch involves a bold and clear announcement, like posting a couple selfies. A soft launch involves subtle hints, like sharing an image with only part of the partner visible or showing something symbolic of the relationship (e.g., intertwined hands).
Breadcrumbing
Leading someone on by sending occasional, flirtatious messages without any intention of taking things further. It’s like dropping breadcrumbs to keep someone interested but without commitment.
Ghosting
Suddenly cutting off all communication without explanation. The person disappears, leaving the other person confused and wondering what went wrong.
Bench Warming / Benching
Keeping someone as a backup option while exploring other romantic possibilities. You might not be ghosted, but you’re not a priority either—just waiting on the sidelines.
Love Bombing
A manipulative tactic where someone overwhelms you with excessive affection, compliments, and attention to gain control or influence, only to withdraw once you’re emotionally invested.
Clout-Relationship
A relationship formed mainly for the purpose of gaining attention, followers, or social media influence. This reflects the digital age’s impact on how relationships can be viewed as a form of “branding.”
Orbiting
When someone stops directly communicating with you but continues to engage with your social media posts, like liking or commenting on your pictures, leaving you in their “orbit” without real interaction.
Cuffing Season
Refers to the time of year, usually from late fall to early winter, when people are more inclined to couple up to avoid loneliness during colder months and holiday seasons.
Dry Texting
Sending lackluster, one-word responses that show little interest or enthusiasm. It’s a clear sign that the person might not be as invested in the conversation or relationship.
Rizz (Short for Charisma)
A term for someone’s ability to flirt or charm others. Having “high rizz” means being smooth and effective in attracting or engaging with people, while “no rizz” means lacking that flair.
DTR (Define the Relationship)
A serious conversation where two people clarify the status and future of their connection. This is where terms like “exclusive,” “just friends,” or “casual” are defined.
[Contributed By Anushka Gaikwad]